When I was a kid, if there was ever a time that my mother put something new and unfamiliar on the dinner table that looked even remotely unappealing (beets instantly come to mind), I would try my best to ignore the fact that it was there and the conversation would eventually go like this...
Mom: "Alison, eat a beet."
Me: "Ewwww. No."
Mom: "Try it. Have you ever eaten one before? How do you know you don't like it if you don't try it?"
Me: "I ate one at Mamaw's house."
Even though I'm well past the age of being sent to my room for outright lying to my mother, I still try to get by with that excuse. Not so much anymore because I'm a bit more adventurous than I was at age 12, but my mother still goads me into trying different things. Oysters, for instance.
I tried Oysters Rockefeller once and I won't tell you what I thought of it and I don't care that you can deep fry it in some grease and make it crunchy. Oysters just ain't for me.
Then I ran across this Shrimp and Smoked Oyster Chowder recipe from Food and Wine and normally I wouldn't have a problem substituting one ingredient for another in soup/stew or totally leaving one out, but the recipe verbage talked about how much flavor the smoked oysters added to the stew. So I bought the can of smoked oysters, popped the top, and based on the looks of what I saw, realized my feelings for oysters had not changed one bit since the Rockefeller days. Flavor I can deal with, an actual oyster I cannot. I figured I would add the little buggers for flavor then sift through and leave them at the bottom of my soup bowl. And then a thought struck me...if I chop them up really small, I won't know they're in there!
It doesn't matter that it was minced into the size of a grain of sand, what matters is I can now proudly say I've eaten an oyster!
Shrimp and Smoked Oyster Chowder
Food and Wine, March 2010
Serves 6
3 cups water
1 cup bottled clam broth
1/2 pound medium shrimp—shelled, deveined and quartered, shells reserved
6 garlic cloves—4 smashed, 2 minced
1/4 cup dry sherry
1/2 teaspoon crushed red pepper
2 bay leaves
1 onion, chopped (about 1 1/2 cups)
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil
1 small fennel bulb, cored and finely diced (1/2 cup)
1 celery rib, finely diced
1 small green bell pepper, finely diced
One 14-ounce can peeled Italian tomatoes, finely chopped and juices reserved
1 medium baking potato, peeled and cut into 1/2-inch pieces
Salt and freshly ground black pepper
6 ounces skinless grouper or cod fillet, cut into 1-inch pieces
One 3-ounce can smoked oysters, drained and chopped
1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce
1 cup buttermilk, at room temperature
2 tablespoons chopped flat-leaf parsley
1.In a large saucepan, combine the water and clam broth with the shrimp shells, smashed garlic, sherry, crushed red pepper, bay leaves and one third of the onion. Bring to a boil and simmer, covered, over low heat for 20 minutes. Strain the shrimp stock into a heatproof bowl and discard the solids.
2.In a soup pot, heat the oil. Add the fennel, celery, bell pepper, minced garlic and the remaining onion. Cover and cook over moderate heat, stirring once or twice, until the vegetables are barely softened, 3 minutes. Uncover and cook until tender, 3minutes longer. Add the tomatoes with their juices and the shrimp stock; bring to a simmer. Add the potato, season with salt and pepper and simmer until just tender, 15 minutes. Add the shrimp, grouper, oysters and Worcestershire sauce; simmer until cooked through, 3 minutes. Off the heat, stir in the buttermilk and parsley. Serve in deep bowls.
If I could spend my days frolicking with the Boy Toy in the Caribbean sand, I would. 
